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2023 reflections and what to expect in 2024

2023 reflections and what to expect in 2024

This is my final blog of 2023. I’m about to do something radical… I’ll be taking the final 2 weeks of the year off. Having been self-employed since I was just 16 years old I find it very difficult to take vacations. In fact, in the first 3 years that my wife and I dated, I never took a single vacation. Our honeymoon was the first time Lindsey saw me take a proper break. But this year is different.

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How to get people to connect with your message

How to get people to connect with your message

Explore the crucial role of the messenger in shaping message perception. Learn why authenticity, credibility, and connection are key to effective communication in our latest blog post, as we delve into the psychology behind message reception and offer practical tips for becoming a trustworthy messenger.

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The Best Gift Matt Damon Ever Received Cost Nothing

The Best Gift Matt Damon Ever Received Cost Nothing

Discover the transformative power of being fully present in conversations. Learn from Matt Damon’s encounter with Tom Cruise how presence can make others feel heard, understood, and valued. Turn everyday interactions into extraordinary experiences.

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Are You A Plane Or A Guide? How To Set Up Your Interactions For Success

Are You A Plane Or A Guide? How To Set Up Your Interactions For Success

Learn how to connect with diverse audiences in this blog post. Drawing from real-world experiences, it emphasizes the importance of flexibility, empathy, and understanding in communication, whether you’re a speaker, salesperson, or leader. Discover strategies to read the room, adapt your approach, and ensure that your message resonates.

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How To Connect When Colleagues Are Drumming To Their Own Beat

How To Connect When Colleagues Are Drumming To Their Own Beat

Explore the vital role of context in understanding colleagues and improving communication. Drawing parallels from The Who’s drummer Keith Moon, this blog emphasizes the significance of perception and the nuances that influence our judgments. Delve into actionable steps and questions to foster genuine connections and navigate diverse perspectives in the workplace.

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